This Bride Canceled Her Wedding After Guests Refused to Give Thousands of Dollars to Help Fund It. Wonders they say shall never ends, A big “WHY” did she have to depend on guest giving her money to have her wedding or the best wedding?
@0lspicykeychain tweeted screenshots of a status she saw shared in a wedding shaming group on Facebook. (To clarify, a wedding shaming Facebook group is exactly what it sounds like—a place on the internet where people go to shame weddings.) What follows is a truly incredible tale filled with broken promises, outrageous expectations, and a bride who thought asking each of her guests to contribute $1,500 to her wedding was a reasonable request:
In the status, the anonymous woman shares that she and her partner broke up due to “recent and irreparable problems.” She then goes onto explain how the two met at age 14, fell in love, got engaged at 18 (with a $5,000 ring), and had a child together in their early 20s. They then saved up about $15,000 for their dream wedding but quickly discovered that their actual dream wedding would cost about $60,000. “All we asked was for a little help from our friends and family to make it happen,” she wrote.
Ok girls, lesson number one. Don’t plan your great day on some else’s pocket/wallet because you don’t know how much is in it.
lesson two, “sew your coat according to your size” I say according to the material you have “hahahaha” yes, point blank. No accesses when you can’t afford it.
Number three, that A had it does not mean you should, so stop copying like a copy cat because only copy machines are allowed to copy exactly, shikena!.
Remember all fingers are not equal. women we shouldn’t send men to steal cos of wedding, wedding na few hours. Whether visitors eat or not the wedding is don and it is done. In short I will love many to copy one of our friends wedding style. They invited their families and friends, who came also with more family and friends, more than two hundred guest. Their invitation card says, “come celebrate with us”.
The wedding and the reception was done in same venue, their church. Unknown to everyone, they had only one cooler of jollof rice and one crate of pop (mineral) 24 bottles. They informed the servers to start serving the rice from the front and the drinks from the back, so that same invitees would not take both food and drink.
What happen? Well, you guess is as good as mine. Only few got food and drink but everyone gave them gifts and went home. All friends did was to complain later but the deed has been done, abi you go kill them? no way dem don marry finish. Its not the ceremony or the best wedding or expensive celebration that makes a marriage, it is the love shared by both and the coming together forever.